How to and not to confront a brother

"Yet do not count him as an enemy, but admonish him as a brother.”

- 2 Thessalonians 3:15

Few things are more difficult than confronting a sinning brother; much more difficult to do lovingly. Every one of us wants to be confronted lovingly and respectfully if we are caught in a sin, but when we find someone in sin, we really do the opposite. We are harsh, quick to condemn, as if we fear others may criticize us for associating with that brother in the past even in good works. This verse tells us how to confront one another in a godly way. Paul gives two Commandments here:  how not to, and how to.

First, confrontation must be done without giving in to hatred. Oftentimes, we condemn a person; let only God condemn a person. Also, we are not to treat him like an enemy. Even if he is a real enemy, our Lord tells us to love our enemy. Furthermore, this verse is not about ex-communication. Even in ex-communication, we are not to treat him as an enemy, but as other sinners. We don't hate sinners; we love them to be saved and look out for every opportunity to share the gospel of repentance.

Second, we must confront him in love. Remember, he is your brother, a family member. (Even if he is not a Christian, he is still a brother in the sense, we all are created in the image of God). Sin must be confronted because sin is contagious. It not only kills the person, but infects others too. Both Old and New Testaments commanded us to love not only our neighbors but also our enemies. We don't and shouldn't participate in their sins, but we must open our arms wide enough for them to see that there is forgiveness, restoration, and friendship in God's love.

Have you ever said or thought "I hate him," "I am really angry," "I don't want to do anything with him," or "He is useless" when you talk about a sinning brother? Would you ask God to change your heart? Maybe you need the grace of God as much as he does!

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The Secret vs The Revealed Wisdom of God

“The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but those things which are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law.”

– Deuteronomy 29:29

Exposition:

        Above all God's creations, we are given an amazing brain capable of imagining things that we would want without restriction. We are curious about new things, we like challenges, confusions, and even horror for some time if we can resolve and regain control over them. However, some things are beyond comprehension. Sometimes we used our imagination to understand God. Scriptures forbid us to imagine a different God other than the God revealed in the Scriptures. Rather, we are commanded (not a suggestion or an advice) to study the Scriptures diligently to know Him more and more. The word of God is an infinite treasure of wisdom, inexhaustible, timeless, sufficient and beneficial for all those who seek to know.

        With the Israelites, we may wonder why God would bring a terrible judgment upon the stiff-necked Israelites? Could He not give them a change of heart instantaneously? Or any question like, “Why did God put the tree in the garden if He knew they would eat its fruit?” Those questions aren’t bad per se, but if they lead us to doubt and deny God, we must remember this verse: we are to seek and obey what is revealed in the Scriptures, and not to try to fool ourselves by attempting to know the infinite wisdom of God. Instead of asking ‘why?’ in our mind, we are supposed to study the Scripture and confirm “So, it was.” God warned them of judgment for disobedience, they disobeyed, and so, it was (that they were judged).

        We must not reject God or question His wisdom just because we don’t understand what He is doing. Our puny brain cannot understand the infinite God. God is revealed in the Scripture to be good, just, loving, merciful, and gracious. Would you humble yourself before Him and trust His wisdom? As one Hymn says, “To be happy in Jesus is but to trust and obey!”

Personal Reflection:

·       How often have I got angry in trying to understand some circumstances of life when I should have exercised trust and rest in God who has allowed them for my own good?

Personal Commitment:

·       To take delight in His word to understand Him better, especially in trying times.

Prayer:

Lord, help me to say like David, “I have quieted my soul before You. I do not seek to understand which is too difficult for me.” I put my trust in You, Amen!

Not to be Popular

 “Therefore when Jesus perceived that they were about to come and take Him by force to make Him king, He departed again to the mountain by Himself alone.”

– John 6:15

John 6 is about bread offered by Jesus Christ. When He offered the physical bread, many wanted him to be a king; He refused and walked away. Then He offered the spiritual bread, which is Himself; they refused and walked away. In verse 15, they wanted Jesus to be king after seeing His miracle of feeding about five thousand people. In fact, the narrative says that they'd force Him to be a king. Jesus wasn’t interested and ran away.

The true King of the Universe refused to be a king! And how many of us want to be a king, president, CEO, officers, and any position of leadership? Or to ask more accurately, “How many of us want to be popular?” Well, position and popularity in themselves are neither bad nor to be rejected bluntly. It just means that the mission (job, work) is more important than any position, popularity, or reputation. A position is given to fulfill a specific role. Popularity comes from being good at what one does.

Jesus was focused on His mission. He came into the world to die like a criminal, not to be crowned as king. We are criminals before God, we have violated all His laws. Jesus died for us, that we the real criminals may live as princes and princesses in the kingdom to come. In fact, at His crucifixion, He was crowned king again, but not in admiration, but in mockery – a crown of thorn. Jesus is the true King and the only King. He reigns in the heart of Christians now. He sustains and rules the universe invisibly. He will come back to earth again, and the whole world will confess (and rightly so) that He is King; because on that day, He comes not to die for sinners, but to judge sinners (unbelievers).

Sometimes, we are tempted to wish God to raise up famous pastors who are popular as Justin Bieber or Cristiano Ronaldo. And we would like to volunteer if a call is made. We thought that if they were popular as them, wouldn’t they be influencing much for the cause of the Kingdom? Actually, God doesn’t call pastors to be popular. If it were so, I’m sure, pastors would be the most popular people in the world. As a pastor, I am glad that the sorts of Bieber and Ronaldo are very popular to remind pastors that our calling is not to be popular, and we will never be popular as them. 

Our calling as a pastor is not to build a name or a kingdom for ourselves. Let Alexander do that. Let Justin Bieber be the crush of everyone. Let Ronaldo have his CR7 brands. And let Obama have million Twitter followers. Our job and mission is similar to our Lord Jesus Christ – to preach the gospel of the Kingdom of God, which is offensive to the world in that we can become so unpopular to the point of persecution. Having said that, I admit, "It's difficult!" Therefore, in God, seeking, both for mercy and obedience! Amen!

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Real Life from a Zombie Life

“The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.”

– John 10:10

Many have thought that Christian life is boring and bitter because it's so demanding and costly. Indeed, Christian life is demanding and costly, but it is the only life worth living. Actually, human race is a zombie race; we are spiritually dead people walking. We need a real death or a real life. This verse reveals us how both options are offered to us. 

The worldly lifestyle (its philosophy and temptations) and the false religions only deceive us and ultimately lead us to real death, which is the eternal separation from the love of God. They come like anyone but their intention is to fulfil their wicked desires. They burdened us with their man-made regulations, oppressed us for the benefit of the elites, threatened us with fear, and deceived us with false assurances. Jesus came to give true life. Wow! It's as if a zombie becomes a human being again through the antidote, as in a science fiction movie. Now, he stopped devouring one another, came back to his senses, and lives a life of deliverance– joyfully and meaningfully.

Only Jesus has such an anti-dote to give us real life. It is a life in its fullness. It is a life beyond anything we have ever dreamed of. The scripture promised this effectively. It says, “may have life.’’ Indeed, it says more than this. It says, “may have life abundantly.” It is a life of abundance. In fact, it says, again, more than this, for it says, “may have life more abundantly.” How could anyone say that Christian life is boring or bitter when we have not only true life but exceedingly abundant true life? 

A true Christian already died in Christ, the life that he now lives is the life given by Christ. Even this life is not lived on his own, but it is Jesus who lives in him (Gal 2:20). It is He who gives the will and the ability to live this abundant life. It is He who produces joy in his life. Would you receive this true life in Jesus Christ? Worldly life leads to death. Jesus gives eternal life, a life beyond physical death, a perfected life in the presence of the glorious God. “Nobody is perfect” will be “Everybody is perfected” there.