"So, affectionately longing for you, we were
well pleased to impart to you not only the gospel of God, but also our own
lives, because you had become dear to us."
– 1 Thessalonians 2:8
Exposition:
Relationship is an important word in the ministry of the gospel, vertically
(with God) and horizontally (with one another). I fear that many have been more
careful to please man than to please God. We must remember that the relationship
with God is the first commandment, and the relationship with one another is the
second commandment. Actually, if one has a healthy relationship with God, it
will reflect on one's relationship with one another. We must never put the cart
before the horse. The ministry of Paul described in 1Thessalonians is a fitting
model for us.
Paul didn't manipulate people to like his ministry nor did he develop a
skin-deep relationship for his gain. He laboured for the approval of God. He
recognised the centrality of the gospel and prioritised to preach it, no matter
how offensive it was. He would preach nothing else but the gospel. However,
Paul did so as a mother to her child, gently and affectionately. He preached
because he cared for them, unlike the prophet Jonah who wanted his hearers to
perish. Not only did he preach the gospel, but he demonstrated for them how to
live a gospel-filled life. He sacrificed his rights, preferences, and comforts
for his listener’s growth.
In this verse, we see the priority of the gospel as well as the importance
of gentle shepherding. Paul cared for them, neither to be liked by them in
return, nor to be well spoken by them or others, he never lived to please man.
He cared for them that they may live a life that glorifies God. He exhorted,
comforted, and charged them as a father (not only as a gentle mother). Gospel
ministry without an authentic relationship and a ministry without accurate
teaching are fragile as houses upon the sand.
Personal Reflection:
- As much as I’ve made an effort for my hearers to
understand the teachings of Scripture, have I made the same effort to show
them in my life!?
Personal Commitment:
- To implement not only servant leadership, but also
parental shepherding in a pastoral ministry.
Prayer:
Father, thank you for the exemplary ministry of
Paul. Help me to love your people as family members, Amen!