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Sunday, May 30, 2021

How to and not to confront a brother

"Yet do not count him as an enemy, but admonish him as a brother.”

- 2 Thessalonians 3:15

Few things are more difficult than confronting a sinning brother; much more difficult to do lovingly. Every one of us wants to be confronted lovingly and respectfully if we are caught in a sin, but when we find someone in sin, we really do the opposite. We are harsh, quick to condemn, as if we fear others may criticize us for associating with that brother in the past even in good works. This verse tells us how to confront one another in a godly way. Paul gives two Commandments here: how not to, and how to.

First, confrontation must be done without giving in to hatred. Oftentimes, we condemn a person; let only God condemn a person. Also, we are not to treat him like an enemy. Even if he is a real enemy, our Lord tells us to love our enemy. Furthermore, this verse is not about ex-communication. Even in ex-communication, we are not to treat him as an enemy, but as other sinners. We don't hate sinners; we love them to be saved and look out for every opportunity to share the gospel of repentance.

Second, we must confront him in love. Remember, he is your brother, a family member. (Even if he is not a Christian, he is still a brother in the sense, we all are created in the image of God). Sin must be confronted because sin is contagious. It not only kills the person, but infects others too. Both Old and New Testaments commanded us to love not only our neighbors but also our enemies. We don't and shouldn't participate in their sins, but we must open our arms wide enough for them to see that there is forgiveness, restoration, and friendship in God's love.

Have you ever said or thought "I hate him," "I am really angry," "I don't want to do anything with him," or "He is useless" when you talk about a sinning brother? Would you ask God to change your heart? Maybe you need the grace of God as much as he does!

Tuesday, May 18, 2021

The Secret vs The Revealed Wisdom of God

“The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but those things which are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law.”

– Deuteronomy 29:29

Exposition:

Above all God's creations, we are given an amazing brain capable of imagining things that we would want without restriction. We are curious about new things, we like challenges, confusions, and even horror for some time if we can resolve and regain control over them. However, some things are beyond comprehension. Sometimes we used our imagination to understand God. Scriptures forbid us to imagine a different God other than the God revealed in the Scriptures. Rather, we are commanded (not a suggestion or an advice) to study the Scriptures diligently to know Him more and more. The word of God is an infinite treasure of wisdom, inexhaustible, timeless, sufficient and beneficial for all those who seek to know.

With the Israelites, we may wonder why God would bring a terrible judgment upon the stiff-necked Israelites? Could He not give them a change of heart instantaneously? Or any question like, “Why did God put the tree in the garden if He knew they would eat its fruit?” Those questions aren’t bad per se, but if they lead us to doubt and deny God, we must remember this verse: we are to seek and obey what is revealed in the Scriptures, and not to try to fool ourselves by attempting to know the infinite wisdom of God. Instead of asking ‘why?’ in our mind, we are supposed to study the Scripture and confirm “So, it was.” God warned them of judgment for disobedience, they disobeyed, and so, it was (that they were judged).

We must not reject God or question His wisdom just because we don’t understand what He is doing. Our puny brain cannot understand the infinite God. God is revealed in the Scripture to be good, just, loving, merciful, and gracious. Would you humble yourself before Him and trust His wisdom? As one Hymn says, “To be happy in Jesus is but to trust and obey!”

Personal Reflection:

· How often have I got angry in trying to understand some circumstances of life when I should have exercised trust and rest in God who has allowed them for my own good?

Personal Commitment:

· To take delight in His word to understand Him better, especially in trying times.

Prayer:

Lord, help me to say like David, “I have quieted my soul before You. I do not seek to understand which is too difficult for me.” I put my trust in You, Amen!

Monday, May 10, 2021

Not to be Popular

“Therefore when Jesus perceived that they were about to come and take Him by force to make Him king, He departed again to the mountain by Himself alone.”

– John 6:15

John 6 is about bread offered by Jesus Christ. When He offered the physical bread, many wanted him to be a king; He refused and walked away. Then He offered the spiritual bread, which is Himself; they refused and walked away. In verse 15, they wanted Jesus to be king after seeing His miracle of feeding about five thousand people. In fact, the narrative says that they'd force Him to be a king. Jesus wasn’t interested and ran away.

The true King of the Universe refused to be a king! And how many of us want to be a king, president, CEO, officers, and any position of leadership? Or to ask more accurately, “How many of us want to be popular?” Well, position and popularity in themselves are neither bad nor to be rejected bluntly. It just means that the mission (job, work) is more important than any position, popularity, or reputation. A position is given to fulfill a specific role. Popularity comes from being good at what one does.

Jesus was focused on His mission. He came into the world to die like a criminal, not to be crowned as king. We are criminals before God, we have violated all His laws. Jesus died for us, that we the real criminals may live as princes and princesses in the kingdom to come. In fact, at His crucifixion, He was crowned king again, but not in admiration, but in mockery – a crown of thorn. Jesus is the true King and the only King. He reigns in the heart of Christians now. He sustains and rules the universe invisibly. He will come back to earth again, and the whole world will confess (and rightly so) that He is King; because on that day, He comes not to die for sinners, but to judge sinners (unbelievers).

Sometimes, we are tempted to wish God to raise up famous pastors who are popular as Justin Bieber or Cristiano Ronaldo. And we would like to volunteer if a call is made. We thought that if they were popular as them, wouldn’t they be influencing much for the cause of the Kingdom? Actually, God doesn’t call pastors to be popular. If it were so, I’m sure, pastors would be the most popular people in the world. As a pastor, I am glad that the sorts of Bieber and Ronaldo are very popular to remind pastors that our calling is not to be popular, and we will never be popular as them.

Our calling as a pastor is not to build a name or a kingdom for ourselves. Let Alexander do that. Let Justin Bieber be the crush of everyone. Let Ronaldo have his CR7 brands. And let Obama have million Twitter followers. Our job and mission is similar to our Lord Jesus Christ – to preach the gospel of the Kingdom of God, which is offensive to the world in that we can become so unpopular to the point of persecution. Having said that, I admit, "It's difficult!" Therefore, in God, seeking, both for mercy and obedience! Amen!

Sunday, May 02, 2021

Real Life from a Zombie Life

“The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.”

– John 10:10

Many have thought that Christian life is boring and bitter because it's so demanding and costly. Indeed, Christian life is demanding and costly, but it is the only life worth living. Actually, human race is a zombie race; we are spiritually dead people walking. We need a real death or a real life. This verse reveals us how both options are offered to us.

The worldly lifestyle (its philosophy and temptations) and the false religions only deceive us and ultimately lead us to real death, which is the eternal separation from the love of God. They come like anyone but their intention is to fulfil their wicked desires. They burdened us with their man-made regulations, oppressed us for the benefit of the elites, threatened us with fear, and deceived us with false assurances. Jesus came to give true life. Wow! It's as if a zombie becomes a human being again through the antidote, as in a science fiction movie. Now, he stopped devouring one another, came back to his senses, and lives a life of deliverance– joyfully and meaningfully.

Only Jesus has such an anti-dote to give us real life. It is a life in its fullness. It is a life beyond anything we have ever dreamed of. The scripture promised this effectively. It says, “may have life.’’ Indeed, it says more than this. It says, “may have life abundantly.” It is a life of abundance. In fact, it says, again, more than this, for it says, “may have life more abundantly.” How could anyone say that Christian life is boring or bitter when we have not only true life but exceedingly abundant true life?

A true Christian already died in Christ, the life that he now lives is the life given by Christ. Even this life is not lived on his own, but it is Jesus who lives in him (Gal 2:20). It is He who gives the will and the ability to live this abundant life. It is He who produces joy in his life. Would you receive this true life in Jesus Christ? Worldly life leads to death. Jesus gives eternal life, a life beyond physical death, a perfected life in the presence of the glorious God. “Nobody is perfect” will be “Everybody is perfected” there.

Sunday, April 25, 2021

Leaving Everything Behind To Follow God

But Ruth said: “Entreat me not to leave you, Or to turn back from following after you; For wherever you go, I will go; And wherever you lodge, I will lodge; Your people shall be my people, And your God, my God. Where you die, I will die, And there will I be buried. The Lord do so to me, and more also, If anything but death parts you and me.”

– Ruth 1:16-17

This dialogue made Ruth the great grandmother of King David and an ancestress of Jesus Christ. I grew up in a culture where women followed their husbands in almost everything including their religious beliefs. But Ruth's husband's family was a disaster. Every male person died including her husband. Furthermore, they were strangers in Ruth's country. Now, her mother-in-law Naomi had to return to Bethlehem. She wisely counselled Ruth not to follow her because Ruth can be with her people (and her real mother) and their gods, and possibly marry again. Her sister-in-law Orpah had taken the counsel, but Ruth refused to go back to her people and their gods.

In other words, Ruth had forsaken the lifestyle of a heathen and false religion. She decided to worship Yahweh, the God of Israel, Naomi's God. No matter how hard the journey may be; how uncomfortable the place may be; how strange the people may be; how demanding God may be; how solitary life may be; how death may come; she chose to follow the life Naomi had modelled for her. She promised to follow even after the death of Naomi. What a role model she had in this woman Naomi! But what a greater model of conversion and decision-making we see in this young woman Ruth!

Ruth had literally given up her world for God and God's people, in particular for Naomi. Thus, God did not only bless her with a rich godly husband, but also chose her to be the ancestress of our Saviour Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit had recorded her story of faith in the Scripture. Is there anything we cannot leave behind to follow God? Are our careers and our comforts more important and grandeur than what God has promised to those who obey Him? Would you, like Naomi, choose to love not only God but His people (the church) too?

Saturday, April 17, 2021

Devoted to Seemingly Uncaring God in Trying Times

“Therefore, when Mary came where Jesus was, she saw Him, and fell at His feet, saying to Him, “Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died.”

– John 11:32 Legacy Standard Bible [2021, New Translation]

The story of Mary is one of the best illustrations of devotion to God. Her devotion to Christ (anointing Jesus’ feet) came as a rebuke to the disciples and even to her sister (sitting at Jesus’ feet). Even in this account of raising Lazarus from the tomb, we see Mary’s fervent devotion to seemingly indifferent Jesus. First, Jesus healed a lot of sick people, but He wasn’t there for them. Second, Jesus delayed 2 days in coming. Yet, when Mary knew of Christ’s arrival, she ran to Him. Mary was utterly right that Lazarus wouldn't have died, had Christ been there in Bethany when he was sick.

However, Mary was also absolutely wrong to have said in that manner. When she said those words, she was saying, in fact, “It's unfortunate! It's a mistake that You were not able to be here! If you had been here, this would not happen!” However, we now know that it wasn't a mistake. Jesus purposefully let it happen (v4-6). It was not to torture Mary or Lazarus, of course. It was to strengthen their faith when He restored life to Lazarus. A thousand years ago, Abraham was called upon to sacrifice his beloved son, Isaac. Abraham didn't think it to be a mistake. He was devoted to God and decided to sacrifice his son, believing that God could raise him again (Heb.12:19). God confirmed his faith.

Few months ago, I bought a new laptop. It often got hanged 2, 3 times a day. And I often got annoyed thinking, “This is a mistake. Why would the Lord cause me to choose this deceitful laptop among many?” We know, God commits no mistake. I still have not found the exact reason why, but I have learned a lot about the need for patience already! After all, pastors should be known for their gentleness and patience, right? [I wrote this devotional piece months ago. At the time of publishing this blog, my PC has been working very smoothly for more than a month already. I thank God!]

Has it been for you that the Lord seems indifferent, unkind, and uncaring to answer your prayers? Remember, God’s compassion for us is exceedingly abundant than we can ever imagine. God allows all circumstances in life to strengthen us in our faith in Him. Would you practice to trust and rest in Him who knows all things and works for our own good?

Wednesday, April 14, 2021

Courage in Persecution

“For this reason I also suffer these things; nevertheless I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed and am persuaded that He is able to keep what I have committed to Him until that Day.”

– 2 Timothy 1:12

A strong conviction is required for any act of courage in times of adversity and persecution. Paul wanted Timothy to have a strong conviction by reminding the works of God. Apparently, Timothy was not courageous as he should be. Paul was slandered and arrested. Timothy could be charged too. Paul was exhorting Timothy not to be afraid of the persecution. He must proclaim the gospel, even if it would take him to prison like Paul.

In this verse 12, Paul understood his suffering as a divine calling, something to be endured joyfully, never to be ashamed of, no matter what everyone might say or think. A call to suffer is for all Christians, according to Philippians 1:28-29. Paul drew attention to the trustworthiness of Jesus Christ. Jesus wasn't afraid of suffering. He was slandered, mocked, beaten, crucified, and even bore the damnation of God for the gospel of Salvation.

In Jesus, we see not only the pattern of suffering and trustworthiness, Paul reminded Timothy of the power of God to preserve us forever. Jesus warned us not to be ashamed of Him, but to suffer for Him. Peter denied Christ three times in one night. Jesus, the true Shepherd, forgave him and reinstated him to be a leader of His mission. Indeed, no one can snatch a Christian away from His hands (John 10:28). Not even our sin can make us slip, nor can we jump out because God's hand is stronger than anything.

This is our God, Saviour, and Lord. Nothing in life is outside His sovereign plan. Therefore, we need not be timid because of the adversaries, nor be afraid of our own weakness; rather we are to put our trust in God for who He is and His promises. Are you a timid Christian? Do you feel ashamed of following Christ publicly? Think of Christ and His Apostles, their warnings, examples, sufferings, and assurance of faith!

Wednesday, April 07, 2021

Responsible Family Member

“But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”

– 1 Timothy 5:8

Paul has a high view of the family. He requires that unless a man shows proven leadership in his home, he cannot be a public (church) leader. He further says that unless a man is a responsible family member, he cannot be possibly a church member (a Christian). In fact, he is worse than an unbeliever. Does this not come as a rebuke to many of us? We want to be leaders in the church or in society when we actually don't demonstrate a sense of responsibility in our own homes. Some are often saints outside their homes and devils in their homes.

The Christian instruction is that first and foremost, as an individual, each of us must pursue personal sanctification. Unless we are transformed by the Spirit to live a responsible life, how can we possibly help others? And unless we are taking care of our own family members, how can any outsider trust our message that we love them? Parents must bring up their children to maturity – that includes their physical needs, education, life skills, and instruction in righteousness and godliness. Children must grow up in obedience, and they should learn to repay their parents when they grow old.

The issue is not about how much they can provide (quantity) or the level of comfort they can give (quality). The issue is concerning the responsibility and the priority one has for his household. Paul expects even the unbelievers to follow this principle because God has written it on our conscience and in the fabric of human society. Sure, a believer may identify with other believers, but his responsibility towards his own family, even to the unbelieving family members, does not decrease. Rather, a Christian has an increasing responsibility not only to his household of blood but of faith too.

Are you having a good relationship with your family members? Have you been neglecting your family (or your spouse) because of your work? Take heed to the words of Apostle Paul. Would you please have a high view of the family?

Friday, March 26, 2021

Admiring Jesus Our Superstar

"When He comes, in that Day, to be glorified in His saints and to be admired among all those who believe, because our testimony among you was believed."

– 2Thessalonians 1:10

We are thrilled to watch very competitive sports and games. Some of us are even die-hard fans of some of the top players. We admire them and celebrate their wins. We love to sacrifice our money, time, and our strength in cheering for their cause – to win. Sometimes fans make out a rivalry of their stars. A Messi fan doesn't like to be in the stadium of overcrowded Ronaldo fans, and vice versa. We enjoy the company of like-minded people. Imagine a world of only like-minded people, how wonderful it will be!

Might I suggest more wildly? Think of the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ to take us to the prepared place yonder! Now, the world may continue to mock our Lord and our Christian ethics. They may persecute us, they may even kill us, but on that day mockery and persecution will cease, and we will have our reign! We will celebrate the victory of Christ because His victory will also be ours. And we will be the undisputed champions and conquerors along with Him. Everyone's a believer there; no more non-believers, no more atheists, no more persecutors; we, ourselves are perfected. No fighting, no argument, no ill-treatment, no sin, nothing evil! Paul pictures this hope for us in this verse.

I long for that day! Everyone will give Jesus the glory He deserves. Everyone will admire Him and proclaim Him, He is Lord. And each of us will receive a crown from Him. I am sure, this imagination (crown) is much better than the autograph of Messi or Ronaldo or any star. And of course, I long for non-believers also to admire my Lord from this present life.